No More Americanization

May 28, 2009 / 10:40 am • By Dr. Melissa Clouthier

The impulse is to say Soto-my-er. But that wouldn’t be correct. The proper pronunciation is Soto-may-YOUR and with a opening of the mouth to get the proper fullness and roll of the tongue.

Sigh.

Remember when people Americanized their names? Partly, it made their names easier to say. Mostly, people just wanted to be American. Fully American.

When the in-laws came from Italy, Italian was most certainly not spoken. They were Americans and they spoke English. In the second generation, that would be grandma who is 92, there is not even the remotest hint of Italy in her voice though she is only the second generation here in America.

Not so now with some folks. Oh no. Acculturation is akin to living in the closet and hiding your ancestral glory. Much better to keep the Puerto Rican accent even though you’ve grown up on American soil.

My uncle is of Mexican descent. He speaks Spanish and knows five dialects. When he speaks English it is not Spanglish. It’s English. It is not English with the twang of Spanish hovering over him. I dare say, if I asked him if his Mexican heritage makes his judgment more stellar, he would say no. I’m quite sure he wouldn’t say that being a man makes him smarter. And yet, he finds a way to integrate his Mexican heritage and embrace his history.

Generations of Americans have done this. They know the language of the old country. They keep certain traditions. But they were eager to be American. They were eager to Americanize their name, even. It was symbolic. It was a blessed gift to have this country and people were proud to be a part of it. A shortened name meant becoming new and American.

So, while President Barack Obama can say Pak-ee-stahn correctly and every newscaster is embracing his inner Latina pronouncing Soto-may-YOUR with relish, I just see more of an effort to elevate other cultures in relation to the American culture.

It isn’t about proper pronunciation it’s about putting America in her place. And her place is no better than any other place, including 3rd world racist, sexist, intolerant, nuclear-armed holes like Pakistan. Well, I say America is better. America is better than Mexico. It’s safer. There are more jobs. There is less corruption (for the time being). America is better than pretty much any place in the world I can think of, actually.

People who live here, myself included, are damn lucky to be here by birthright. And those who choose to become citizens are making the best decision of their lives. Their whole future will change.

So, a kid from Puerto Rico can come to America, get educated in the best schools and be put forth as a potential Supreme Court Justice for the best country in the world. That’s America. It’s great. And America is bigger than our collective pasts. She is better than the places we came from. We do well to melt into her beauty and live to rise to her ideals.

Americanization is a good thing. Assimilating and changing to fit America’s mold is what makes this country different from the fractured and racist Europe. So those who are so intent on elevating other cultures might want to consider the outcome of their actions. America doesn’t need to turn into a place where races are Balkanized and marginalized by neighborhoods, language, religion and culture. That would be a destructive place.

America needs to continue to be a melting pot. I’m Melissa Clouthier. It is not Cloo-tee-ay. It is Cloth-ee-er. I’m American and proud of it.

  1. 13 Responses to “No More Americanization”

  2. Mat
    May 28 2009 / 11:57 am
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    Melissa,

    Welcome to the new Austro-Hungarian Empire, where everyone can be their own ethnic identity and to hell with the rest: I’m a Czech, I’m a Croat, I’m a Slovene, I’m an Italian, I’m a Ruthenian, I’m a Hungarian, I’m a German, I’m a Pole, I’m a Serb, I’m a Bosniak, I’m a Rumanian (I’m sure I missed a few ethnicities). And look what happened to them…

  3. Stix
    May 28 2009 / 1:11 pm
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    I am truly the American Melting Pot. I am German, Scotch Irish, Norwegian, Polish, Lithianian and a little of everything else you can think of.
    My grandpa was directly from Poland and changed his name from Welc to Welch because no one could pronounce it.

    Now the country is being Balkanized thru Identity Politics.

  4. Glynn W.
    May 28 2009 / 2:18 pm
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    ummmm, see . . . here’s the thing. People from Puerto Rico don’t move to America. They were born there. Here. See, Puerto Rico is a part of America.

    So, if they don’t want to change their names to make it easier for white people, that is their right AS AMERICANS.

    If they decide to change their names to Smith, that, too is their right as Americans.

    And Melissa, one more thing. Does a proud supporter of the former President George Bush really want to criticize the current officeholder for his pronunciation of a country’s name?

    Really?

    Really . . .

  5. Dr. Melissa Clouthier
    May 28 2009 / 3:29 pm
    Reply

    ummmmm Glynn,

    Are you being willfully obtuse? Are you trying to miss the point?

    A Puerto Rican is an American citizen who cannot vote for President from the island because it’s an unincorprated territory.

    But that wasn’t the point of the post. At. All.

    The point of the post is that where people once wanted to talk, sound and be American, now people seem to want to talk, sound and be what-ever-their-country-of-origin is and enjoy all the benefits of America. To enjoy it’s blessings, essentially, while pissing on it at the same time.

    How do you like this idea:

    I think that my experiencek as a Russian male gives me a unique perspective on the law.

    And I say it with good dose of moral superiority and Russian throatiness while speaking Russian at home and making my wife wear a babushka.

    It’s the difference between having an American-centric verses an ethno-centric life. It is a question of culture and where one puts one’s pride.

    While I enjoy listening to the bagpipes and have gone to a Scottish games day, I do not speak with a brogue nor do I consider my Scottish-English womanly heritage as something that makes me uniquely qualified for anything. If my kid wanted to be clad in a kilt with my family’s Tartan plaid to his wedding he would be welcome to knock himself out.

    Still, I’m American. I’m an American of Scottish-English descent. The big deal is that I’m an American. I enjoy shortbread, too. I also enjoy Taquitos.

    And since this is America and all races, creeds and cultures are represented, I’m free to do so.

    P.S. If I met Ms. Sotomayor, I would say her name the way she’d want it pronounced. To do anything else, when I know the correct way, would be offensive. My point, though, was about the greater cultural emphasis.

    P.P.S. Bush is no longer in charge. But Biden is fun to make sport of–have at it.

  6. RightGirl
    May 28 2009 / 3:59 pm
    Reply

    Damn you, Kloo-tee-ay. Damn yoooooooou!

    RG

  7. Glynn W.
    May 28 2009 / 4:23 pm
    Reply

    Can a kid from Michigan come to America?

  8. Dr. Melissa Clouthier
    May 28 2009 / 5:05 pm
    Reply

    Not if his name is Glynn. LOL And Michigan is not a territory of the United States. It is one of the United States. Again. You are willfully missing the point. It’s not about Puerto Rico being another country, which it is not, since it’s an American Territory with a Governor.

    The post was about identity politics over being an American. It was about how people are now more deferential to their ethnicity, race, gender, and yes territory or country, than they are to unifying ideals embodied in the American culture like freedom, and the colors red, white & blue.

  9. Stix
    May 28 2009 / 6:08 pm
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    Glynn

    The whole point is that the PC police and the Balkanization of the United States is happening. As I said before I am a little of everything. I have relatives that have been here from around the time of the Mayflower and then my grandpa and grandma on my Dad’s side were directly from Poland. But they all assimilated into the culture and became part of the Melting Pot. Not part of the German Americans, Polish American, Norwegian Americans, they became Americans.
    But we have too many that do not look to become Americans, but part of a sub culture. African American, Mexican American, and so on. That is not what this country is about, it is about everyone joining together in this big experiment called the United States of America. Not Red or Blue or whatever identity anyone wants to put on you.

    I am an American that has many different cultures in my blood, even some Jamaican if you believe that President Harding’s mom was a Octoroon. But I am an American first.

  10. Glynn W.
    May 28 2009 / 10:36 pm
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    Stix,

    this is towering nonsense.

    Even a brief look at American history will reveal that several flavors weren’t traditionally allowed in the “mixing pot”. People didn’t seek a “subculture”, they were tossed into one.

    Just because the melting pot didn’t much take to my kind, doesn’t mean my people didn’t bleed and die for this country.

    My passport ain’t going anywhere, even if I like to keep a little flavor in my vocal infections.

    gw

    okay, if you are born in D.C. (a territory of the United States) can you then, “move to America”?

  11. Stix
    May 28 2009 / 10:44 pm
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    Please tell me how this is nonsense. At most people would stay in the Irish or Italian sections of big cities for 1 or 2 generations and then would integrate into society as Americans. If you can not see that, then I feel sorry for you. The American of my grandparents is gone. Thank God they are not alive to see what has happened to this country.

  12. Paul Gordon
    May 29 2009 / 1:11 am
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    Rachel Lucas has a post in her blog, about a supervisor in a Mansfield, Texas (close to Dallas) hospital who hung an American flag in her cubicle only to have another supervisor (who had emigrated to this country 14 years ago) protest about being “offended”.

    A commenter replied,
    “If you moved here because life is better here … QUIT trying to make it more like the place you LEFT.”
    .

  13. Jeff
    May 29 2009 / 8:32 am
    Reply

    Avoiding the melee, thanks for telling us how to pronounce your name. I’ve been lurking here for quite awhile and in my own head I’ve been saying Cloo-tee-ay. I’ve spent quite a bit of time working in Montreal, and it was my best guess.

    My own forebears had their names Americanized — how many American can pronounce Polish names? Heck, my grandfather’s middle name is Ellis. He liked it so much, he gave it to my dad, too.

    I generally pronounce unfamiliar names using English rules. If I learn otherwise, I’ll try to use their preferred pronunciation as a courtesy. But if I guess wrongly, don’t get your boxers in a bunch. I don’t get my dander up when an immigrant calls me Zhayfree.

    Can’t we all just get along?

  14. Mat
    May 29 2009 / 8:40 am
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    Stix,

    Glynn is a left wing nut. Since the left wants to actively destroy this country because it’s a roadblock to communist paradise, they always try to divide and conquer. Dismantle the social fabric in this country and what do you get? As I said earlier, essentially an Austro-Hungarian Empire. There are only a few things that hold this country together (it’s surprisingly more fragile than most people think). Take them away and you can significantly alter the cultural landscape of this country. That is what’s at stake right now.

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